Do You Road Rage? Why We Do, and What We Can Do About It

Living in a city like Los Angeles requires a commute on some form of Freeway (too many to list), a journey through bumper to bumper surface streets, and possibly a walk. All of this is cemented between our daily stressors of work and family.

It’s often common for us to leave home upset around time management issues, conflicts with loved ones, or the dread of going to a place of employment. How can this not affect us? Most of us are also aware that there is an unofficial “Rules of the Road” handbook that establishes polite behavior, which is not followed by many. The perfect storm of impolite driving (unsafe, or self-righteous), and an average person’s bad day can lead to escalations that are unsafe for all parties. Most of us would call this sudden explosion of anger, Road Rage.

While the actions of others remain out of our control, we can be more mindful of our own state as we enter our cars. When a person makes a physical check of possible obstructions prior to pulling out of a space, they are hyper aware. Their eyes search all mirrors for people, dogs, and other cars as if life depended on it, and in many ways this is true. We can also look inward, within ourselves. Creating an awareness of how you are feeling prior to starting the ignition, can be helpful in creating awareness of where you are at.

Road Rage is related to the tipping point of our agitation. What is your frustration tolerance at that particular time, on that particular day? Some people appear to always be at a high frustration level, but for others, irritation can sneak up more slowly. What are the daily obstacles we still have in front of us? Maybe there is a specific meeting, appointment, or a time we have to pick up our kids. It could be the time of day we depart such as rush hour, or a work related task that still lingers on our mind. Are we late? There is an infinite amount of possible stressors, and personal drama or what we might call personal crisis situations (hey it seems like a crisis to us!), but when paired with inconsiderate drivers things can explode.

If we were to rank our personal wellbeing on a scale of 1-10, with one being Buddha, and 10 being Hulk, most likely we all live in a 3 most of the time. It’s once we cross 5 or 6, that we want to become more mindful of Road Rage triggers, and our own body awareness. This is the time we can course correct, prior to further and potentially more dangerous escalation.

Every person has a different anger response. If we begin to track our outbursts, we become more aware of the patterns in our triggers. This is where we can consciously begin to change patterns and replace or alter behaviors. Tracking body symptoms prior to outburst (twitching eye, flushed face, rapid breathing, warm forehead, watery eyes, itchy shoulders or neck, clenching, etc..), can be helpful in establishing patterns, but we need to work on better planning to implement prior to these escalations.

Listening to the radio, taking deep and purposeful breaths, or talking to a good friend or family member can be helpful. Avoiding conflicts while driving is a good rule of thumb as well. When a person is riding at an 8 or 9, it does not take much to be the straw that broke the camel’s back. As our mindfulness and self-awareness increase, it’s easier to make better choices, and do the things we need to do to be safe.

Finding Free Online Games Is Simple

Game developers are finding new ways to get their ideas into the hands of the public. Any search engine can steer you in the direction of stick games, adventure games, or even murder mystery suites. This is a great way to get computer game entertainment without spending any money. Many times, the games are Flash based, which allows users to play the complete game without downloading anything. When you can sit at your desk or on your laptop and play free games, you learn which development companies are on the cutting edge of the industry and can reap all of the benefits of free entertainment. In today’s economic climate, isn’t free fantastic?

Search Engines Can Help

When you utilize a search engine to find free games, you are not tapping into just the specific game title. In fact, you can search various genres or designers, and in many cases, you will learn about companies that you never knew existed. The larger gaming companies that charge upwards of $50 for titles have an army of developers at their disposal, which explains the high cost of the game-play. Smaller development companies often have unique takes on classic gaming styles, offering up simple yet entertaining modules that are playable 24 hours a day. Stick games, for example, have become very popular, and though the animation is simple, stick figures can be hilarious when they are performing different actions or acting out storylines.

Ingenuity Always Reigns Supreme

Consider the amount of time that is put into the graphics that many gaming companies release. The expense is passed onto you, which we explained before, but they are also sacrificing gameplay or story development to bring you incredible visuals. This isn’t where you will find new takes on gaming styles. Instead, these online game providers are taking chances with various gaming techniques and are not relying on the graphics. Instead, the gameplay is the focus. Nothing can spark a gaming revolution like experimentation in gaming styles. Many titles that are popular for PlayStation or Xbox have developed various gaming techniques by getting feedback from online gaming platforms. In essence, in playing, you are helping to shape the future of gaming.

Setting the Bar With Stick Games

From classic hangman to fully executed adventures, stick games have become one of the preferred methods of flash or online gaming modules. You can create an incredibly interactive and exciting game, but that does not take the fun out of the classics. And, because so many developers moonlight as online creators, you are getting quality time with some of the industry’s most brilliant minds. When playing, be sure to let the designers or creators know what you think. It will help them create games that users enjoy and ultimately improve your overall experience.

The online gaming movement has gained momentum largely in part because many graphic artists and programmers look to get “out of the box” when they aren’t working on corporate projects. You can enjoy the fruits of their labors by simply searching for free online games and choosing the genre that appeals to you the most. Stick games are a shining example of how graphics do not always equate to a great gaming experience, so do not be deterred by the “stick figure” style. Many actually find these graphics to be fun, and because the simplicity is intentional, you will likely realize the brilliance of the entire concept.

Getting some great entertainment without spending money is a venture that many only dream of, but some of the best game creators in the world are offering up their skills for your enjoyment. So, fire up your internet browser and get ready to have some fun!

Boho Is Back, Conscious, Holistic Fashion!

Funky and chill, free spirited Bohemian fashion, conscious design that is holistic and now more necessary than ever. Patchwork gypsy skirts and hippy yoga pants, embroidered caftans, colorful tribal, paisley prints and chunky bead jewelry are totally in style. With a resurgence of design styles and fashion icons ramping up its popularity, bohemian hippy chic fashion is known for its earthy wanderlust roots and relaxed vibe.

Travelers of the old world “Banjara” were gypsy wanderers, who wanted to be different and lived life on their choice set of rules, creating trends and not following a social dictum.The boho lifestyle and clothing is based on the diverse gamut of cultures and patterns with the archetype of mixing and layering clothes, prints and colors. Earthy conscious designs, upcycled vintage fabrics, traditional handloom prints and weaves, the choices are endless. Mix and match Indian chikankari tunics with cutout ragged jeans! Georgette tunic dresses as beach cover ups, or use the white shift dresses for yoga and meditation, adding on accessories like the earthing malabeads and copper bracelets, seeking nature and connecting to mother earth.

The boho style sees Priyanka Chopra donning a cute cutout midi dress in tie dye at the country festivals, the Boho vibe is casually chic and elegant. Mylie Cyrus wears the colorful bohemian sari mini skirt with a white blouse tucked in at the waist.
The newer side of this trend has moved onto a “hippie-luxury” style with fashion designers creating earthing luxury style collections overflowing with old style fabrics full of passion and tranquil colors. The dreamy bohemian fashionista plays with long maxi skirts, soft flirty tunic caftans, embroidered dresses and earthy stonewashed fabrics.

The ultra modern Bohemian grounds herself to Mother Earth, rejoicing in her love and radiates confidence through her choice of earthy colors. The style manifests in the romance of original tribal art with pure cotton and ethical fabrics. Upcycled saris made into skirts and dresses, the fun and playful look is easy to accessorize and you create a fashion statement like no other as these are so unique and one of a kind.

Street style bohemian can be funky or chic, the gauzy printed maxidress is good for all seasons. Sandals and a hat for the summer or add a light jacket and booties for cooler days. The authentic tribal patchwork design skirts and boho vintage pants contrasts with the bold black tank, mixing bohemian with city chic. Be a glamorous fashionista, create your own style – conscious, holistic, earth friendly and in tune with nature, using clothing artisan created and unique.
Be a Boldly Mogul Bohemian Fashionista!